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Getting Your Partner Interested in the Swinger Lifestyle

There are many people in a marriage or relationship who would love to try the swinger lifestyle, or who are at least curious to find out more about it. However there is often a snag – their spouse or partner isn’t that keen. In fact, they may even be horrified by the thought of seeing their partner being involved sexually with someone else. If this is the situation you find yourself in, don’t despair. There are many couples happily involved in the swinging lifestyle that started out with one of them being reluctant.

If you want to get your partner interested in swinging the key is to realize that you can never talk them into it. Neither is it a good idea to try to coerce or trick them into trying it, in the hope that once they do try it with you they will like it and want to continue. The only way to really succeed in the swinging lifestyle is when both partners are equally willing to be involved.

So your job is simply to get your partner interested – but how do you do that? It’s simpler than you might think! The real key is to lead your partner into expanding your sexual experiences together in a way that is very safe for them. After all, there are really only two reasons someone wouldn’t want to try swinging (at least once!). One is that they feel a bit insecure in their relationship and may fear the emotions of jealousy and envy. The other reason is that they don’t feel comfortable about expressing their sexuality in such an open way. These might be regarded as rather controversial statements but nevertheless I have found them to be largely true.

 

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